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The Joy of Ferals & The Fear of Crapping Your Pants

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Gabby peeks around the cat carrier to see what sort of monster
is shining a bright light into her face.

Ahhh...ferals. To know them is to fear for your life, I mean, love them. It's been, how long, a few days or so since Mama (I'm told she's called, Gabby, by her caretaker, Larry) and her three offspring came to live in the big dog crate in my spare room.

So far, I've had no contact with any of them, other than to feed Gabby-she's been eating like a pig. Three-5.5 oz cans of food a day for the first few days, plus dry food! She must have been VERY hungry. Now she's slowed down a bit, I think because she knows she's going to get more. I think she's even become a bit picky-the nerve!

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To give Gabby more room and to put myself at more risk of being bitten (idiot that I am!), I removed the cat carrier from the dog crate. Gabby was constantly closing the door to the cat carrier, then hiding behind it, so what good was it really doing? Once I removed it she started shredding up the newspaper and trying to break out of the dog crate. What a MESS this one makes! I know she wants out, but I don't dare let her loose in the bedroom. I'm already afraid she's going to let me have it every time I have to open the dog crate door! Imagine my fear of walking into the room each day, wondering where she's hiding. No thank you!

I'm going to rig up a cardboard box for her so maybe she'll relax a bit, if she has somewhere to hide. She's a pretty kitty, but has made it clear by her hisses, that she wants nothing to do with me. I won't stop trying to be her friend, though, but for now, I'll be cautious. My main concern is how I'm ever going to get a hand on her offspring? They're two weeks old, today. I have a little bit of time, but if I haven't started handling them by next week, I'm going to have more trouble socializing them. I hope she'll let me touch them! I still don't know if they're males or females or if they need any medical support. They seem to be fine, but...we'll see, I HOPE!

Although I realize, I'm doing more for my group by fostering the ferals, since we have fewer families that can deal with them, I have to admit that I hope for some sweet kittens some time, too! The theme for this Kitten Season, so far, has been "Fractious Foster Felines Forever!"

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Not sure how familiar you are with Ferals... but one trick is to put the carrier back in, and twistie the door to the side of the cage. Push it all the way back so she cant hide behind it. Then when you need to get in there (change litter, grab kittens) "scare" her into the carrier and shut the door. Tricky business though. ;)

On the befriending... try a long handle bath brush and try to brush her. she might swat and freak out, but if you get in a pet or two on her, she might go "what?!?" and like it. It happens... if not... use it on the kittens or to coax them to you, or to coax her into the carrier!

Holler if you need more feral tips. ;) Thanks for being one of the few who will work with them!

I was just trying to decide if I should just let mama out of the crate. She bangs on it ALL DAY long. Drives me nuts. That said, twist tying the cat carrier open might be good if the darn door for it wasn't so "in the way" of everything else. I got mama a cube cat bed, but she just pushed it all over the dog crate. Got in it once and that was it before it was getting trashed. Sigh...she looks sad. I feel sad. It's just sad. I'm not patient, so I guess that doesn't help, either. I just want her to know she's safe and in good hands, but I don't think she believes me.

This is my second feral mama, but I've had plenty of feral kittens...oh well!

Get some Rescue Remedy for her water. (Calming plant extracts).
Try Feliway diffusers.

Cover the cage (looks like you do that) to calm her.

If you think she might tame up, try to put her where you can talk to her alot, walk by alot, toss in treats every pass, etc. Use the bath brush to try petting.

If you think she's not gonna be down with taming and it's just not going to happen, just let her be, keep the cage covered, and have a radio near her for calming noise (silence is scary!)

If you're not going to tame her (I dont blame you if you dont, some just arent interested!) make sure not to keep her in too long. let her go AS SOON AS YOU CAN. Lengthy indoor stays for ferals can mess them up, esp if the weather changes while they're in.

Meantime, talk to her, promise her her stay will be short and her babies will not have to live the hard life she's had, and thank her for doing such a great job with them. She'll hear you. :)
Julie

I have a feliway diffuser running in the room. I do have RR, but didn't put any in her water. I'll do that, too. I have the TV going, not too loud and I do go visit her, but she's not interested. I undertsand. I just want her to be comfortable until it's time for her to go back to her outdoor life with Larry, her guardian. I should go check on her now, speaking of which... :-)

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