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Gone, Baby, Gone

My foster cats survived their spay surgeries and they returned home yesterday morning. I was glad to have them back, but of course I realize that it's a temporary situation. Rose, the Mama, was slated to be moved over to a local animal shelter where she would be placed for adoption today. I'm not happy about it.

I'm so frustrated. Our group, like so many others, can't afford to open our own shelter. We home-foster and invite potential adopters to our home to see the cats they're interested in adopting. It stinks. We don't have a facility where someone can just stop by and see whatever cats and kittens we have all in one place. Until we can do that, we're forced to place adult cats into other shelters. They just don't show well in a home, where they're already safe and well-fed. They're more likely to be adopted if they're in a cage. It helps offset that they're no longer cute kittens, but adults who've hit a bad patch and need to be rescued.

Does it really feel like rescuing a cat from someone's home? Probably not.

It doesn't stop me from wanting to keep Rose here as long as needed. My very good boyfriend (errr...fiancè) supports this idea, too, and is willing to lend a hand to care for the cat when I GO ON MY SPANKIN' ROAD TRIP TO NEVADA in a few days (I hope I can leave, 'cause right now I have a f-ing cold).

Rose's fate is out of my hands, especially since she came home and was basically limp, after her surgery. She didn't eat much and what she did eat, she vomited. She also seems to have the runs, so it was back to the Vet for her. So far, her re-check went fine and no fever is present. Because our Co-Founder came to take her to the Vet, she may just pick Rose up tomorrow and take her straight to the Shelter. Am I paranoid? I don't think so. When I said; "I'll pick her up when they're done with her. Just let me know what time." was answered with; "We'll talk about it."

Poppy trying to comfort her Mama

Poppy comforts her Mama, Rose

Rose didn't get a chance to say goodbye to her babies. I didn't get a chance to say goodbye to Rose, either. Will any of us ever see her again? I dunno. She's gone, baby, gone.

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Hey Robin,

My heart is breaking reading this, but I wonder if this might help ... Down here in Northern Virginia, our local no-kill rescue group (hart90.org) has an agreement with the local PetSmart. PetSmart has a small area in which HART can have several (maybe 8?) cages to show off their cats. Most of the cats are fostered, but at least some cats have exposure to the wider viewing public. They also allow HART to have adoption days once a month at the store. PetSmart wins, because they can tout the good work they are doing, and especially that they don't sell animals themselves. HART wins because they are able to get more cats adopted. I don't know if your local pet stores are already doing this, or even if it's possible in your neck of the woods, but I thought I'd mention it as an alternative to building and maintaining your own separate shelter. Enjoy your trip, and I really hope Mama Rose is feeling better, and you all get to say proper goodbyes.

Hi Sheryl,

Thank you for your heartfelt comment. Our group does have a good relationship with our local Petco, but I don't think they have a way to adopt out cats directly. The local PetSmart is far enough away so that I'm sure they support the many groups that are close to them, not ours. The shelter Rose is going to gets a lot of traffic. Since Mama is friendly, we hope she'll be adopted quickly.

I just found out she IS coming back to my home until Tuesday. At least I have a few more days to try to find her a home and if I don't, I hope her stay at the shelter is very short-lived. This is a No-Kill shelter, too. I would NEVER allow her to leave if I thought her future was in jeopardy.

Looks like my trip may be cancelled. Between having a cold and the snow that's about to hit the Rockies, I may just bag the whole thing and go sulk! LOL!!!!

Stay tuned...

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